Marriage a life long Adventure

Unfortunately we can't put the little lady out to pasture when she hits those menopausal years . In this chapter we learn to deal with the little lady. With a little help from Willy G.we will explore the evolution of female menopause in a factual account.

Evolution of female menopause
The evolution of female menopause is a strange topic to discuss. For basic biological success an individual is graded on how many children are left behind to carry on your genetic information. So why would nature evolve to a way where woman are biologically a waste of energy? Males may reduce fertility over the years but continue to produce sperm until the end of their lives. There is even a father documented at the age of 94 I believe. So if Fathers can live and reproduce well into their 90’s, why is it that around the mid 50’s does women’s reproductive system shut down?
When you think about it, how many women really can take care of a new child after the age of 50? Not that it is impossible, but at this point people are starting to get old and not only has general health declined and most survive on medication, but the body just does not have the energy or resources to provider for another living being to be sustained from it. With all these circumstances, it would probably add up to a rather difficult birth with an increased chance of death. Not only the mother, but the child could be affected too. With the general nutrients lacking in older women such as calcium, the child could be born lacking specific nutrients, poor bone structure due to lack of calcium, or other genetic defects that could rise out of sub par sex cells.
Possibly, I think this can be related back to humans thousands of years ago. With currently technology, the general understanding is that humans really did not live much older than about 45 years of age. If this is the case, then the female reproductive tract is designed only to last for roughly 45-50 years. You might the ask why the males reproductive tract lasts so much longer and I would say that’s due to the lack of physical investment men have in reproduction. Mother Nature is not incompetent and the evolution of this menopausal age has to due with how much of the mothers body is sacrificed to the reproductive process. I think had the male been the child bearer, that menopause would have occurred in him rather than the woman.
Discuss the hypothesis regarding male promiscuity and female discreteness with regards to the following facts:
A. Females are fertile for only about 4 days per month
B. Humans are one of the few species that engage in frontal intercourse to reproduce
Male promiscuity and female discreteness are noticeable in everyday life. Men tend to go after the women, and the women tend to sit back and wait for them. " A little game of cat and mouse" The fact that females are only reproductively fertile for four days per month can be directly related to the above hypothesis. In regard to male promiscuity, men constantly produce fresh sperm. Therefore it you might think that it is meant to be used often." naturally men need more sex, which refers to an earlier lesson," keep him home, keep him happy" Man needs it and if he don't get it at home he is going to get some where else. If women are only fertile for four days on the month, the man cannot know when each woman will be fertile. Originally, a man was meant to impregnate as many women as he could, so this way he would never have to worry about being fertile himself. If a man was only fertile for a limited time, he would have to try to find a compatible woman who was fertile at the same given time. So, even in today’s monogamous society, the men’s constant production of sperm and urge to reproduce is still effective in making it easier to find a mate, or mates if the man so chooses to do so.
Review
1.Hormonal changes are drastic in this time of a women's life, she is feeling emotions of worthlessness, a good man will see and recognize the change and promote well being with compliments of the day. Remember the number one question Honey do I look fat? The response to this should I speakeda no English.
2. Good disagreements are necessary to maintain a relationship of well being., remember the key to a good argument is sex afterwards. A good fight gets the women's blood boiling , hot hot.... how do u say flash?
3.She will do things at this time of her life, that you never possible. Possibly leaving the barn yard, feel her inadequacy and inner self worth.
4.Since sex in the women's mind is connected to procreation, this is the time to explore new fun techniques in the bedroom.
5. Review the whys of marriage...
a) safe sex when you want it.
b) your getting to the age you don't want to be alone.
c) a novel idea but rare you fell in love.
d) time to move out of the parents house.
e) if you don't pick one now only the ugly ones will be left.
f) finacial reasons you like the tax break.
g) you want to secure spreading of the seed to a quality line. p.s check teeth.

The Reality of Sex

1. Discuss the Relationship Between love and sex/ reproduction.
I find that love directly affects the woman in this scenario, while subliminally affecting the man. While sex and reproduction can occur without the aid of an infatuational relationship, it is of the best interest of both the man and woman to partake in this occurrence.
Let’s start with the man. Though most men would say that they would have sex without having any emotional attraction to the woman, it is still in his best interest to do so. Even though he does not realize it, the reason he is even interested in having sex is overwhelmingly to reproduce. This is a subconscious urge. Most men would probably be offended to realize it , but that is what fuels their sex drives. In light of reproduction, having a love relationship with a woman is the best way to assure quality children. By spending time with the partner prior to insemination and eventual fertilization the man can study his mate and determine whether she is a qualified woman to be the mother of his children. Any man can basically have a child with any woman if we forget abut disease and disorders but this does not mean that he will have the best offspring to succeed him. By actually having a loving relationship and forming a bind with his partner the man can know that the woman will take good care of his children. Also, by staying together, they form a superb environment for the children, allowing for female influence for the daughters, and male influence for the sons. Although a buy can grow without his father and a girl can grow without her mother, they are not the best scenarios for each parent has something to offer that each child needs.
For the woman, the benefits of a love relationship with a man are a little more apparent and a little more direct. Everything a woman finds attractive in a man ( wealth, power, strength, health…etc. ) Directly relates to how well he will be able to provide for her children. And in a loving relationship, there is a better chance that the man will stay with her and continue providing for her and her children. Similar to the man, a woman can study her partner when in a relationship and have the governing ability in deciding if he is a worthy man to father her children. Though she could have children with any man, how will she provide if she is in the homestead caring for the children? There is where the wealth and success of the man comes into his attractiveness. His health and stature are of great importance to women as well, for they want the best genes possible for heir children. If a man is very skinny and perpetually unwell, we will not seem very attractive no matter how successful he is. Also, Women need to have love in there life. Emotionally women are much more intense and open than men. I feel that when in a relationship, certain hormones are probably released that make life a little better for both the man and the women. Statistics show that years can be added to a man life expectancy simply by being married. So, as they say “ love makes the world go round.”

2. Discuss the evolution of the 1:1 ratio of Males to Females at reproductive age. This 1:1 ration seems to have a large, direct link with the implication of diversity. Diversity is the single most important piece to the evolutionary puzzle when it comes to have the best mutation for the job and the least amount of defects in a society. What is odd about the ratio is that there are more men at birth, but less men living to old age, but at the point of puberty and throughout reproductive age, the ration is one man, to one woman. Prior polygamous acts would lead to multiple children but reduce quality and diversity. Also going along with question number 1, any man who “loves” more than one woman can love neither woman enough. But back to diversity, if one man has 5 wives and 4 men have none, then the diversity of the gene pool for the Y chromosome is being severely limited. I see this one to one ration being Mother Nature’s way of saying that there is one man for every woman. When there are 5 children born from five couples, there is much more diversity then when those five children are born of one father. The more diversity goes down, the lower the rate of beneficial evolution and the higher the rate of genetic disorders. Look at the Jewish and Amish communities. Both tried to keep reproduction within the community and both have a much increased rate of specific genetic disorders that have began to flood their gene pools. This will go for any culture or animal species on the planet.
Monogamy also leads to more quality children instead having a quantified reproduction. The investment in a human child is much greater than that of a rat or fish, so the 1:1 ration is important in allowing for the right choice of partner for the care and betterment of the child being raised. Hopefully, with one father and one mother to each child that child will be raised well, rather than one father to many mothers having many sub par children. Another small note is that I think the over all mental and physical health of the individuals benefits from being in a good relationship, so for the species on a whole there is a better chance for someone to find a mate that they need.

Let's review.... it is the nature of the beast for man to need to spread his seed and though he can easily do this by not getting involved emotionally with a woman or women. Though not instinctive to man, but in his best interest to choose the cream of the crop to promote the best chance of

carrying out his duty in preserving his genetic pool.

Facts

1. Man doesn't need to have an emotional tie, but he does need a physical attraction.

2.Though it is common to spread many a seed, choosing a monogamous partnership is in his best interest.

3. Quality not Quantity...

4. Love makes the world go round!

5. Life is bilogical,

6. Wants or needs, the bend of both make for a better marriage.

7. Choosing a mate is based on compatablity, but appearance is necessary, no one wants a ugly little lady, thus promoting ugly little

rug rats.

8. Sex is fun, sex is procreation, sex is necessary... sexual compatablity is necessary for a long term relationship.

9. Married men live longer, because love is the fundamental platform for

fullfilling desire.

10. There is no room for disagreement man is right!

When lies are deadly... a marriage isn't

the only thing they kill.

Man kills wife's lover, but she gets indicted
ARLINGTON, Texas -- Darrell Roberson came home from a card game late one night to find his wife rolling around with another man in a pickup truck in the driveway.
Caught in the act with her lover, Tracy Denise Roberson -- thinking quickly, if not clearly -- cried rape, authorities say. Her husband pulled a gun and killed the other man with a shot to the head.
On Thursday, a grand jury handed up a manslaughter indictment -- against the wife, not the husband.In a case likely to reinforce the state's reputation for don't-mess-with-Texas justice, the grand jury declined to charge the husband with murder, the charge on which he was arrested by police.
Tracy Roberson, 35, could get two to 20 years in prison in the slaying of Devin LaSalle, 32.
Assistant District Attorney Sean Colston said Texas law allows a defendant to claim justification if he has "a reasonable belief that his actions are necessary, even though what they believe at the time turns out not to be true."

Ya gotta love Texas where the courts still support marriage and the laws still back the innocent.... Long live the state of Texas!! Where a man can be a man.

Imus In The Morning!

We have a choice to change the channel or turn it off... It's our right!

Protect our Liberities and long live Free Speech!or is that free speech till someone doesn't like what you say?

I found this article on "Imus in the Morning" his attack on women and what is considered a racial slur. We here at Paulism believe in free speech and so I am not here to take sides or offend anyone but as always speak the truth and support men when it comes to free speech.. This is not about right and wrong. My question goes out to the music industry that has supported the African American Community over the last several years. So here goes Dear Music Industry have you listened to the words of some Rap Music? I would never promote such language here at Paulism nor degrade a woman or a group of people in such a racial or sexual way. This music is broad casted publicly on numerous radio stations.
If we are going to attack one man then I say scrap derogatory rap music from the history of music nothing has degraded a woman and the equality of minorities then many of the rap music placed out in the public. Yet it is almost solely supported in sales by young women of every color. Where do I get my facts, we have polled over 500 women in the metropolitan area and asked them if they were insulted?
The end result was " are we going to let the few radicals speak for the majority? I say not...
I want to know if the radio stations are going to remove Imus then they should be removing some of derogatory rap music as well. What does this do, it constitutes censorship. In retrospect any radio show or television show that has ever played derogatory rap music is as guilty as Imus. If we are going to run our country based on a personal hurt feelings, then we will have to eliminate all the comedians and musicians that have ever attacked a Irishman , Italian, Polish man and so on. The female basketball team has the same rights as anyone else to speak out and say what they like or don't. That's what makes our country so wonderful.But they don't have the right to dictate what they don't like, change the channel babe!!!

Go to http://www.urbandictionary.com/ and ask your self what do the words actually mean and what do they mean to you.. well I know a few wives who get off on being a hoe for their man.

Let's review the comment Nappy defined in the dictionary a

1.

nap·py 1 (nāp'ē) Pronunciation Key adj. nap·pi·er, nap·pi·est
Having a nap; fuzzy.
Kinky; frizzy.

2. hos as referenced from the urban dictionary which is our reference guide for American slang.

1.
hos -slang for hoes!
dem bitches are hos....they calling for some bootie

2.hos -A word used as greeting: to greet people such as your friends especially when entering a chatroom or greeting a group of people
He logged on to IRC and typed, "hos hos everyone"
3.Hos -the hottest, sweetest, most perfect

So I ask what are they insulted over that they had a bad hair day or that they were referenced as a hoe? This article can be read on how degrading rap music has been with singers such as Snoop Doggy dog http://www.vanderbilt.edu/htdocs/divinity/kmsi/michelle_jackson.htm



As we say in the paulism court of ball _ " People in Glass houses Don't throw stones"



This is not about racial or sexual profiling, "this attack on Imus" because derogatory Rap music has done more for racial and sexual profiling then any one humorous radio talk show host could.

Just ask the Duke lacrosse players what one lie can do to a life, I am tired of our country bending to kiss the ..... a** of every offended woman and group. Support Democracy

Defends your rights and keep those letters coming. www.paulism_award@yahoo.com


Here is the article in its context....
MSNBC drops Don Imus simulcast
By DAVID CRARY, AP National Writer 41 minutes ago
NEW YORK - MSNBC said Wednesday it will drop its simulcast of the "Imus in the Morning" radio program, responding to growing outrage about the radio host's racial slur against the Rutgers women's basketball team.

if("This decision comes as a result of an ongoing review process, which initially included the announcement of a suspension. It also takes into account many conversations with our own employees," NBC news said in a statement.
Talk-show host Don Imus triggered the uproar on his April 4 show, when he referred to the mostly black Rutgers women's basketball team as "nappy-headed hos." His comments have been widely denounced by civil rights and women's groups.
The decision does not affect Imus' nationally syndicated radio show, and the ultimate decision on the fate of that program will rest with executives at CBS Corp. In a statement, CBS reiterated that Imus will be suspended without pay for two weeks beginning on Monday, and that CBS Radio "will continue to speak with all concerned parties and monitor the situation closely."
MSNBC's action came after a growing list of sponsors — including American Express Co., Sprint Nextel Corp., Staples Inc., Procter & Gamble Co., and General Motors Corp. — said they were pulling ads from Imus' show for the indefinite future.
NBC News President Steve Capus said he made the decision after reading thousands of e-mails and having countless discussions with NBC workers and the public, but he denied the potential loss of advertising dollars had anything to do with it.
"I take no joy in this. It's not a particularly happy moment, but it needed to happen," he said. "I can't ignore the fact that there is a very long list of inappropriate comments, of inappropriate banter, and it has to stop."
NBC's decision came at a time when Imus' program on MSNBC was doing better competitively than it ever has been. For the first three months of the year, its audience was nearly identical to CNN's, leading CNN to replace its morning news team last week.
Calls for Imus' firing from the radio portion of the program have intensified during the past week, and remained strong even after MSNBC's announcment. The show originates from WFAN-AM in New York City and is syndicated nationally by Westwood One, both of which are managed by CBS Corp. MSNBC, which had been simulcasting the show, is a unit of General Electric Co.'s NBC Universal.
Bruce Gordon, former head of the NAACP and a director of CBS Corp., said before MSNBC's decision Wednesday he hoped the broadcasting company would "make the smart decision" by firing Imus.
"He's crossed the line, he's violated our community," Gordon said in a telephone interview with The Associated Press. "He needs to face the consequence of that violation."
Gordon, a longtime telecommunications executive, stepped down in March after 19 months as head of the
National Association for the Advancement of Colored one of the foremost U.S. civil rights organizations.
He said he had spoken with CBS chief executive Leslie Moonves and hoped the company, after reviewing the situation, would fire Imus rather than let him return to the air at the end of his suspension.
"We should have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to what I see as irresponsible, racist behavior," Gordon said. "The Imus comments go beyond humor. Maybe he thought it was funny, but that's not what occurred."
A CBS spokesman, Dana McClintock, declined comment on the remarks by Gordon, who is one of at least two minorities on the 13-member board.
The 10 members of the Rutgers team spoke publicly for the first time Tuesday about the on-air comments, made the day after the team lost the
championship game to Tennessee. Some of them wiped away tears as their coach, C. Vivian Stringer, criticized Imus for "racist and sexist remarks that are deplorable, despicable, abominable and unconscionable."
The women, eight of whom are black, agreed to meet with Imus privately and hear his explanation. They held back from saying whether they'd accept Imus' apologies or passing judgment on whether a two-week suspension imposed by CBS Radio and MSNBC was sufficient.
Stringer said late Wednesday that she did not call for Imus' firing, but was pleased with the decision by NBC executives.
She said the meeting with Imus was never designed to call for his removal but to give the women on the team the opportunity to meet with him and for him to see the people he had so publicly hurt.
"The young ladies and I needed to put a face behind the remarks... He needs to know who these young ladies were that he hurt," Stringer said.
Imus has apologized repeatedly for his comments. He said Tuesday he hadn't been thinking when making a joke that went "way too far." He also said that those who called for his firing without knowing him, his philanthropic work or what his show was about would be making an "ill-informed" choice.
The Rev.
said in New York that he would put pressure on CBS but that the issue was larger than Imus.
"I think we also have to have now a broad discussion on how the music industry allows this to be used," Sharpton said. "I don't think that we should stop at NBC, and I don't think we should stop at Imus."
The Rev.
said he planned to meet with CBS and NBC executives on Thursday with a delegation of other civil rights activists and lawmakers to discuss the Imus situation and diversity in broadcasting.
"Imus is on 1,040 hours a week and yet they have virtually no black show hosts. That is true for other networks as well," Jackson said. "We must raise the ethical standard for all of them."
At the Rutgers campus in New Brunswick, N.J., about 300 students and faculty rallied earlier in the day to cheer for their team, which lost in the national championship game, and add their voices to the crescendo of calls for Imus' ouster. One of the speakers was Chidimma Acholonu, president of the campus chapter of the NAACP.
"This is not a battle against one man. This is a battle against a way of thought," she said. "Don Imus does not understand the power of his words, so it is our responsibility to remind him."
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Associated Press writers David Bauder, Samantha Gross and Seth Sutel in New York and Rebecca Santana in New Brunswick, N.J., contributed to this report.
(A previous version of this story had the word 'are' in a quote from Rutgers' basketball coach. It should have been 'were.')

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Your Wife's Inner Child... Review

Humoring your little ladies Inner Child!

The do and don'ts of the inner child

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In summary you have to take note that a woman becomes bored easily and this has her reverting back to the emotional explosion of loniness. How do we keepthe little lady Happy and feed the inner child. Take note that she is not crazy, but in great demand of attention. Remember to compliment and appreciate the little lady. By popular demand I was asked to repost the " inner child" for those of you who missed this lesson or those who wanted a review here goes.... and P.S. Thanks for the tons of email... In favor of men... "the King of the Castle"

The little Lady never grows up, controlling the inner child.

It's not that I'm unfeeling and a inconsiderate emotional pig, I understand the modern day womens plight to come to terms with her inner child. Her mind has been filled with songs of path to freedom, serenity and a false empowerment. I understand why divorce is on the rise, with this sense of equality, when in fact males just as females have a role to play. Do you find your wife straying, is her inner child in need of healing, is she beginning to believeshe has suffered undo stress and is seeking change?How can we Help the little lady to be more secure in her role as mother and housewife. First thing you must do is find out if you are dealing with the wild lioness in her that needs to be tamed or do you have the scared kitten on your hands. Some of you really have your hands full as you have a little lady with multiple personalities, the sybil trait. This is a quite complicated little lady to deal with. Following are our best guidelines below will help you to heal the wounds in your little lady.

1) Keep a close eye on who she makes as friends, scan through her person things, make sure she is not filled with ideas of grandeur. This is very important as she is very child like and easily swayed by those women who wear the pants in their family. Stop unwanted friendships quickly

.2)Understand that the little lady will go through altering changes in behavior, its expected. The female is a emotional mes and can be filled with a mixture of emotion, she needs to know you appreciate the little things she does for you......very little but still the same we have to let know we appreciate it.

3)The little lady disease is her emotions, it scrambled her brains, and causes hard to heal wounds,remember the little lady is dependent on you and as she tries to reach out, she finds herself trying to join the ranks of her world sisters.

4) She has listened to one to many talk shows of emotional abandonment, then now is the time to maybe take her to dinner, McDonalds, or Burger king, don't let her talk ya into those high prices restaurants. Food is food it all comes out the same, she wants atmosphere eat it in the outdoor tables.

5) The little lady is like a "fairytale, she needs to be rescued.Say to yourself, I am the knight in shining armor, I will rescue the little lady. When she repeatedly says no to your attention, that her to calm down and just give in, she knows wants it

.6) Compassion is a useless emotion do not allow her to set a trap and hold you to fake tears. The litte lady is great at creating a sense of guilt.

7) It is important to know, and maybe the most important rule in this chapter is that the little lady is the master of manipulation. She will expect to be coddled when she is supposedly ill, which is just one warning sign she is looking for attention. "Women don't get sick" they are made to handle everything. If you start giving in and helping with chores, she will become lazy and in efficient in the household chores. Even worse she will start to expect it.Conclusion: The inner child in your little lady can be quite complicated, so my advice is if she fails to adapt to her necessary role and is weakened by outside invasion, so called friends. You may have to isolate, Isolation will break down the barriers. If she drives take away her car keys and if she don't my advice is to keep it that way.