The little Lady never grows up, controlling the inner child.
It's not that I'm unfeeling and a inconsiderate emotional pig, I understand the modern day womens plight to come to terms with her inner child. Her mind has been filled with songs of path to freedom, serenity and a false empowerment. I understand why divorce is on the rise, with this sense of equality, when in fact males just as females have a role to play. Do you find your wife straying, is her inner child in need of healing, is she beginning to believe
she has suffered undo stress and is seeking change?
she has suffered undo stress and is seeking change?
How can we Help the little lady to be more secure in her role as mother and housewife. First thing you must do is find out if you are dealing with the wild lioness in her that needs to be tamed or do you have the scared kitten on your hands. Some of you really have your hands full as you have a little lady with multiple personalities, the sybil trait. This is a quite complicated little lady to deal with. Following are our best guidelines below will help you to heal the wounds in your little lady.
1) Keep a close eye on who she makes as friends, scan through her person things, make sure she is not filled with ideas of grandeur. This is very important as she is very child like and easily swayed by those women who wear the pants in their family. Stop unwanted friendships quickly.
2)Understand that the little lady will go through altering changes in behavior, its expected. The female is a emotional mes and can be filled with a mixture of emotion, she needs to know you appreciate the little things she does for you......very little but still the same we have to let know we appreciate it.
3)The little lady disease is her emotions, it scrambled her brains, and causes hard to heal wounds,remember the little lady is dependent on you and as she tries to reach out, she finds herself trying to join the ranks of her world sisters.
4) She has listened to one to many talk shows of emotional abandonment, then now is the time to maybe take her to dinner, McDonalds, or Burger king, don't let her talk ya into those high prices restaurants. Food is food it all comes out the same, she wants atmosphere eat it in the outdoor tables.
5) The little lady is like a "fairytale, she needs to be rescued.Say to yourself, I am the knight in shining armor, I will rescue the little lady. When she repeatedly says no to your attention, that her to calm down and just give in, she knows wants it.
6) Compassion is a useless emotion do not allow her to set a trap and hold you to fake tears. The litte lady is great at creating a sense of guilt.
7) It is important to know, and maybe the most important rule in this chapter is that the little lady is the master of manipulation. She will expect to be coddled when she is supposedly ill, which is just one warning sign she is looking for attention. "Women don't get sick" they are made to handle everything. If you start giving in and helping with chores, she will become lazy and in efficient in the household chores. Even worse she will start to expect it.
Conclusion: The inner child in your little lady can be quite complicated, so my advice is if she fails to adapt to her necessary role and is weakened by outside invasion, so called friends. You may have to isolate, Isolation will break down the barriers. If she drives take away her car keys and if she don't my advice is to keep it that way.
